In addition, we would go to movies, discuss events, debate various issues, have BBQs etc.
As my friends became more tech savvy and web savvy, they decided to start an online forum called "Stupid-Trash.net". The forum was not only intended for the discussion of computer games and tech questions but was a virtual manifestation of the unique group of friends we had.
The forum was divided into various topics such as: "Gaming", "Tech questions", "For Sale", "Religious Debate", "Dreams", "Hang Outs", "Randomosity" etc.
The forum had a place for each of our friends to be able to participate in and communicate with one another.
Often, the forum would turn into discussions of "what happened last night at the LAN party" or "are you going to so and so's house". These topics would only make sense to those within our group of friends. While anyone had access to the forum, it would have been hard for someone to understand the conversations happening unless they knew the group, or a subset of the group, personally.
If a stranger to the community had stumbled upon the site and wanted to join the next LAN party, they might face some obstacles because a) they dont know us and b) we dont know them, so we would be less likely to extend the invitation to the stranger because they have no tie or 'meat space' connection with the group.
If the person happened to be a friend of mine, then I would be able to vouch for them and invite them to the LAN.
The real barrier with this community was knowing its members in 'meat space'. Without that connection, it would be hard for someone to jump in on a conversation or get invited to a LAN etc.
